Understanding Our Nervous Systems: Why Rest is Crucial for Survival
- Jo
- Sep 12
- 1 min read
Have you ever felt guilty for needing time to rest? Or worried about a loved one who seems to be withdrawing and struggling to manage daily life? It's time to reframe how we think about our nervous system's natural responses.

Our nervous system isn't a one-size-fits-all mechanism. It operates through different states, each critically important for our survival and well-being. The Rest and Digest mode - sometimes called shutdown or burnt out - is a neccessary protective response and shouldn't be misunderstood as laziness.
What Does "Rest and Digest" Really Mean?
- Creates space for our body and mind to recover
- Essential for processing information and experiences
- Helps reset our internal systems
For parents, carers and professionals, this means understanding that when a child seems withdrawn or needs significant downtime, it's not a failure. It's a normal, healthy nervous system response. This reset and recharge response looks different for every individual and it may take a while to figure out what works for ourselves or our family members.
Key Takeaways:
- Rest is not weakness or laziness
- Different nervous system states serve different purposes
- Recovery time is as important as active time
- Compassion towards ourselves and others is crucial
By recognizing and respecting our nervous system's natural rhythms, we can support better mental and physical health.
We support children, young people and adults in a variety of ways, providing wellbeing sessions, groups and therapeutic support to find their own unique and individual rhythms for emotional health and wellbeing. Please get in touch if you would like to know more about how we can support you.





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